nitesh sharma

Professional Programmer, Introverted traveler, and Admirer of classics.

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Day #03.

I did freestyle social, had some insights but more scattered, me felt the unease of confusion, dullness, At the end of the end I had some clear question to ask tomorrow.

Me had a tendency to repeat the conversation with different dialogues.

I could build a law bassed on the social interaction with akshay.

As long as me is not speaking, all the social interaction flows smoothly. it is when me start to take control things start to go sideways.

I also saw the movement of me making plan and then getting worried at the time of performance and how quickly those sensations pass.

Ask the precise question tomorrow, friday evening I should have a clear manifesto for next 10 weeks.

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The Social Code of Conduct.

Your social code of conduct should be in a way that does not create noise in other people’s mind and help them to grow.

No backbiting and harsh words - you simply don’t like it then don’t do it to other people.

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Virtual me and real scenarios.

If me is comfortable with something in the mind then it can handle that in the real world as well.

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Ashamed Me.

There are certain thing me is ashamed of. Watching femdom. Someone will see this post, And me has to come to term with these. These are the things me feel ashamed on sharing in public. These secret vault.

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Right Speech.

Almost everytext is putting a lot of emphasis on speaking truth. It feels right too, then what is the challenge.

Do not do backbiting, what is there to argue.

Do not speak harsh words, what to do with people who are constantly abusing. you need to give them corrective feedback. and set the boundaries.

Do not speak lie. It is only attached with fear of rejection and ridicule and being taken advantage of, and just the easy way out. It is the fear of what other people will think.

Don’t do idle speaking. If you don’t do idle speech what you will do with other people.

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The Law Of Sharing.

The natural laws are accompanied by good feeling. compassion and making feels good, helping someone, sharing and following the law of nature feels incredible.

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Sharing me and the reality.

Different me has the different version of realities, stories, and attachments to different things.

The me who are successful has the right version of reality. the me who are failing miserably has the wrong version. Everyone me believes he is right, the more out of sync.

The me can be tricky, It can ask other me to justify, if the other peoples opnions are threat to its beliefs it can start badmouthing them, Me can also be abusive or very begging kind of me.

The me is very easily be influenced, you should only listen to the mes who you know are sharing their true reality with no personal intentions. The me who has walked on the path, you should listen to them.

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The Social Reality.

I am sharing the space with people, The people are actually me and their reality. If you wanna know the other people, you need to observe them.

The fundamental structure of the me and the mind is the same for everyone.
If you can see your me and mind clearly, you see everyone’s me and mind clearly.

Everyone is doing something, hardly anyone is just sitting down.

People talk to each other, what do they talk? what do I talk? Sometime I talk because the silence is uncomfortable and I end up talking about the pursuits of some object or debating of an idea.

There is a need of acceptance inside “me”, that need leads to justify, and putting the social mask. This need of acceptance leads to unbalancing the mind. People do a lit of thing like me dressing well to gain the acceptance any negative value judgement create self doubt.

Me can easily be influenced by others idea.

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The inevitable social contact.

Just for survival it is necessary to be in contact with other people. The natural law is the law of interdependence. you need to bring value in some way and other people must bring value in some way to other people life.

By the law every one must, some people adhere to the law by wish and some people by force,

Only by this virtue itself you have to interact with people.

There is also an element of hierarchy and power. there is this contract facilitated by money, This much value will cost this much money and then you are bound my contact. Here also people try to work as little as possible.

The need can not be brought in isolation so you also must collaborate with other people to do it. other people can again offload much task over you, do the work differently etc, there is an inevitable conflict there.

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Comman patterns.

There are many common patterns that are keep happening, people asking for help, people don’t caring the boundaries of any kind, people asking for justification, you needing other peoples help, other people needing your help.

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