nitesh sharma

Professional Programmer, Introverted traveler, and Admirer of classics.

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Work Strategy.

Getting solid in your primary stack - Most likely I am going to work as full stack javascript engineer in my next role. Having unprecedented skill here. ES6, react, vue, sevlet…

Go deep - This means going more deeper into the technical stack I am currently working on. The data structure, C++, Software design, AI( maths ), Computer Vision, Robotics. The idea is to keep increasing the complexity in terms of the challenge. This kind of challenge makes you better and better in programming as a skill.

Expanding the stack - AWS, devops, thread programming, OOP, Design patterns, CI/CD, there are things which Inhances my current capabilities within the Programming stack I am currently working.

Being an expert in modern stack - There is high demand, less competition, great opportunities, and modern advantage. AI, Blockchain..

Adding parallel skill - IOS developer, Python, AI, these kinds of...

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The function of mind.

How can I complete 3 projects before I go to the Vipassana? How can I test my limits on how much is my potential?

My mind is constantly showing different solutions of how can I impress someone? How can I get respect etc? While these are coming from their desires.

Understanding how something works?
Why jack dorsey or saneep are more successful than me.

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Emotions.

Emotions are this energy burst and trigger thoughts like mom saying something and I am getting angry.

Emotions lead to action.

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Practice.

A precise practice can be correcting spelling mistakes each time I see a mistake while I am writing. This feels frustrating and time-consuming and It is also guaranteed you are learning.

Another great example of the practice is the Udacity project. There is lethargy, agitation, frustration, even lethargy, and followed by strong sense of confidence in the subject.

With practice, you can turn knowledge into habits. without it knowledge is dormant.

Currently, my actions are coming from the place of not feeling comfortable with some feeling and replacing it with the action based on understanding.

The practice is learning and once I had to practice the keyboard typing.

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Mind emotions beliefs habit and practice.

There are certain things which are absolutely clear and essential start with that and build upon them. What are the things which are absolutely clear and essential and start to practice right away and turn into habits?

Being comfortable with all sets of emotions and learning the meaning of each emotion and practicing them. Also learning what my emotions are telling me.

Asking the precise questions and using the mind to come up with right answer.

Replace the beliefs with empowering ones and changing the limiting beliefs

Practice.

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Mind

Mind: The tool for problem-solving:: Based on beliefs, habits, and desires mind automatically generates ideas.

Or I can also give a direct problem to solve. How can I choose policies: call someone who has it! call an agent! When there is too many thoughts of fear and desires it becomes chaotic and weak.

If I can give a direct question to the mind, It can get the solution, The more clear the question is the more direct the answer will be.

Currently mind is still generating the answer based on the past habits, and desires, and it is doing 24/7

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My part in the relationship.

There are part in me that she doesn’t like and frustate her just like me, I guess the top would be not saying yes not saying No. The commitment is really important to her. She wants to show me ther importance of relationship.

The relationship should be partnership not one person is giving and other person is taking. and both should contribute in terms of building the relationship.

It matters to her that I keep my words, If I say things I should do them.

Basic hygiene, shaved and all.

She wants me to respect her.

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Relationship 2.0

The relationship is about supporting each other in their journey through life, providing love and social support, it is about depth where you know other person deeply, what she is going through. the commitment opens up the door for the building life together…

The relationship is not about physical attraction, although I do feel attraction, it is not about controlling another person to fulfill your desire. It is not a way to avoid loneliness and meaninglessness.

Lin is a simple person, who is independent financially and contributing in building the life together. she is homely and love to cook and love to take care of home. She is agreeable and non arrogant and I love her presence when she is sleeping next to me, hugging me, kissing me, walking together laughing. We both like yoga, healht, spirituality, unconventioanl life. she doesn’t smoke, drink, eat meat, or there is not a lot of...

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Empathy map

Lin - Works as a freelance international trader and a yoga teacher. She is 33 years old Chinese and has a Bachelor English and in degree in Yoga, and 200 and 300 hours Yoga teacher certificates. She wants to teach yoga because she believes in the act of sharing, taking care of the body, and healthy way of life is important. She doesn’t want to do it for business, She likes traditional yoga studios like Isha yoga, Bihar school of Yoga etc. She is finding it challenging to give the class that is suitable for all, including different age groups and health conditions. and she is finding it annoying to compete with yoga teacher products coming out of 1-month training. She loves cooking music, buying books etc. The way she searches for the job is by applying to different studios and getting emails and calls, She sometimes she ends up in yoga studios she doesn’t like. Her ideal job will be...

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Lin - the negative scenarios.

The silent treatment - The way she behaves sometimes, sleeping in her room, leaving the bed in the night, going to the doctors alone, silent in the auto, taking a walk by herself, then there are these massages she writes. I feel like being careful around her.

The jealous - The way she feels jealous and possesive when I talked to preksha or Jalyassa, all kind of imaginations, from I am a prisoner, you will make things easy. unrealistic expectations from relationships, creating hope and getting hurt. and then she tries to push for marriage etc.

Her mental and physical health - She is waking up with these I have low energy, I feel dizzy, etc. digestion, rashes, and sleep issues. These even seems pyschosomatic issues. The way she postpone the The way she buys the clothes…

Intellectually - Intellectually she is took 4 years to complete that degree which supposed to done in 2 years.

A bad...

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